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IRAN: Today's Iran as Seen Clearly by its Teenage Girls

Date: 
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Source: 
World Tribune
Countries: 
Asia
Western Asia
Iran
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Human Rights

Nothing is more telling about a society than its views of itself especially those of its youth who carry the burden of the nation's immediate future.

During informal interviews with Iranian teenage girls in and around schoolyards, one can learn many things about the character, bravery, thoughts, and worldliness of these young ladies, including their current place in society as opposed to what they would like it to be.

An experienced psychologist could not explain it better than these students, who openly and clearly declare the obvious: when a society is overly-constrained, people are naturally drawn to what is forbidden. The Iranian society under its current laws is limited and suffocating. Girls especially feel helpless and imprisoned.

Their lack of control over their lives goes beyond their desires to choose their appearance, but rather where their country stands in the international arena. Their severe social and political difficulties and oppression has put these young girls on a higher philosophical level than their Western counterparts.

In comparison, for example, American youth often have no clue who his/her political representatives are, and where U.S. stands on domestic and foreign policies. That is because the American teen is not bogged down by the possibility of punishment for having images of rock stars on his/her notebook. Simply put, the American teen is allowed to be a teen!

Iranian teenage girls want an Iran where they feel safe, where good things exist. They spoke of an idealistic homeland, a place where their lives are not wasted, where women can have dreams and their future children can have hope for the future.

They have a profound sense that Iran is “lost,” and everyone wants to leave it. They complain that women are not respected in the Islamic Republic. Before marriage, the family including younger brothers controls the girls, and after marriage the husband takes over.

Women are not allowed to be independent or free. Without money in the Islamic Republic, a woman's problems are ten-fold.

Through satellite the girls know that the world views Iran negatively. As Iranians, this is a source of great pain. They talk about doing something to give Iran a good name.

The girls say they are not debating the right to wear miniskirts or strapless tops, but freedom of speech! In the Islamic Republic, nobody can talk freely without being physically punished as opposed to other countries where people can even speak poorly of their leaders without fear for their lives.

They feel that when a people and a society no longer care about life, and see it as useless and empty then it is not worth living. They constantly ask why their way of life has been decided for them from birth to death. What kind of a choice and freedom is that?

One young girl states when she is alone, she often wonders if she can travel back in time to stop the unpleasant changes that will affect her future. As an Iranian girl, to what changes and place in time is she referring?

The girls show a popular game they love to play on their computers. In it one can choose how to dress, what to do for a living, what kind of house to build, who to marry, to have children, and to travel. These bright young ladies know society regards educated women differently, but lament a college education as regardless they could not find jobs after graduation. They murmur they're like lab mice, first for one system then another!

Two-thirds of the Iranian society living under a Constitution based on Sharia laws is comprised of those under the age of 30.

It is amazing that a 2500-year old nation with a golden history including the foundation of tolerance through its Cyrus Cylinder, advanced legal system in the late antiquities, the keeper and transmitter of ancient and Western knowledge, as well as female co-rulers and monarchs would fall to this level in 2011.

This generation of Iranians has been compressed to the max and it is ready to explode. Its youth are upset, embarrassed, and disoriented regarding their social and political problems as opposed to those of the Free World.

This young society, the heiress to Iran's future, does not understand or digest Sharia laws. But it understands the basic needs and wants of a humane society regardless of its ethnicity, religious beliefs, and geography.

In Iran, Islamism is on its deathbed if the most oppressed members of society, constituting half of the population, speaks as such!